Struggling to Rebuild Your Life In the Aftermath of a Toxic Relationship?

Let me help you to rebuild

your life and find the happiness, peace and joy that you deserve.

Does this sound familiar?

  • You feel like your entire sense of self-worth is in shambles in the aftermath of the relationship
  • You feel like you don't even know who you are anymore
  • You desperately want to pick up the pieces and move on with your life but you don't know where to even begin

Healing and rebuilding your life after a divorce or break-up is very difficult enough as it is. And the situation is made even more challenging when you're healing after a toxic or abusive relationship.


Not only do you have to re-learn how to navigate life as a single person, or perhaps as a single parent, you also need to heal from everything that was inflicted on you during the relationship.


And if you're co-parenting with your ex, you may have to deal with custody battles, visitation rights and all the complexities that go with co-parenting.


The honest and unvarnished truth is that rebuilding your life in the aftermath of a toxic relationship is one of the most challenging experiences you will ever have to face, regardless of whether you have kids or not.


It's very difficult to do on your own...especially when you have kids and you need to "keep it together" for them.


This is where I come in

As your coach, I'm there to provide a safe,

non-judgemental space for you to heal.


I'm there to gently nudge you and remind you that you are worth fighting for.

I'm there to help you to tap into an inner strength and resilience that you never knew that you possessed.


I'm here to help you to identify the patterns within yourself that made you vulnerable to falling into a relationship like this again.


And more importantly, show you how to change and heal them so that going forward, you attract an emotionally healthy partner who will love and cherish you and treat you with respect.

To sum it up, I'm there to help you to rebuild your life and make it even better than before.

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Time To Thrive

Coaching Session

During this free 60-minute session, we will:

  • Create a crystal-clear vision of your "happy ever after" now that your relationship has ended.
  • Uncover the hidden challenges and obstacles that sabotage your efforts to heal and find yourself again so that you can move from merely surviving to absolutely thriving.
  • Leave the session renewed and excited about exactly what you need to do in order to feel whole and happy again.
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Why Me?

I've been through the pain, confusion and uncertainty that you're experiencing right now.


And so I get it on a level that very few coaches or therapists can understand unless they have been though it themselves.


And unlike many advisors who may tell you to just leave, I understand that many factors need to be taken into account when making such a big, life-changing decision.


I offer a safe, judgement-free space for you to make the right decision for you and your kids, and at the same time helping you to uncover the beauty and strength that is within you.

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Client Success Stories

Marie Louise, Cape Town, South Africa

Before I met Bernie, I had lost myself completely. Dreading to get up in the mornings to start my day and just longing to get back to bed as soon as possible. Drinking myself into an oblivion to not feel anything.

Bernie offered her life coaching services to help me get out of my rut and I was sceptical to say the least.

It was the best decision I could have made.

She helped me to get back to where I could feel comfortable being myself again, to focus on what I would like to achieve in life and work at it every day.

She taught me that companionship comes in many forms and helped me to identify them and appreciate them.

She reminded me to be grateful for how far I have come on my own in life and to always have an open heart and mind at all times because anything could happen at any time.

I would definitely recommend Bernie as a life coach to those who are in need of one.

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