Tired of Feeling Helpless,

Hopeless and Broken?

I help you to find and tap into your inner

strength and resilience so that you can feel healed, whole and happy again.

You're Here Because You're Ready For a Change

Regardless of whether you're currently in a toxic relationship or you've already left, I'm here to help you to tap into your inner strength so that you can create a beautiful life for yourself and your children (if you have any).

Hi, I'm Bernie

I help women who find themselves in unhealthy and toxic relationships break through the limiting patterns that are keeping them stuck so that they can finally find the peace, freedom and happiness they've been yearning for.


Having rebuilt my own life after an abusive marriage, I know first-hand the challenges that need to be overcome in order to heal and rebuild your life.


I spent 23 years in an abusive marriage and even though I was the primary breadwinner I didn't leave the relationship because I believed that I could love him into changing and becoming a better person.

After some tough love conversations with a priest and the principle of my children's school, I finally summoned up the courage to end the relationship.


And even though it wasn't easy, it was one of the best decisions of my life.


It took me a long time to rebuild my shattered sense of self and build my self-esteem. I took the time to uncover why I got involved in this relationship in the first place and tried to understand the thought patterns kept me trapped so that I could heal them and not repeat the same mistakes in the future.


I eventually decided to become a coach who specializes in helping women in toxic relationships because I intimately understand the challenges that they face.


That has become my mission and my life's work. Nothing makes me happier than helping a woman to rediscover her inner strength and to find the peace, happiness and fulfillment she's been searching for.

What Makes Me Different


What sets me apart from other therapists and coaches is that I have an intimate understanding of what it's like to be in a toxic relationship.


And so unlike other therapists or coaches, I will not judge you for not leaving sooner or not wanting to leave at all....because I've been there and I totally get it!!


What I will do is provide a safe space for you to make the right decision for you and for your kids if you have any.


And if you've already left the relationship, I will help you to pick up the pieces and rebuild your life to be even more amazing than you ever dreamed that it could be.

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